My problem is that I freeze up when I talk to guys. Try bringing that same persona and energy to a date.
I can’t seem to come up with anything to say, I become shy, quiet and introverted. If that’s you at your best, why would you choose to be any other way ?
With that in mind I thought I'd try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it's like to be a man who's really shy and inexperienced with women.
At the end I give a few thoughts on what to do if there's a shy guy in your life you're interested in.
So it is acceptable for you to initiate with a shy guy. The problem with male shyness is that it wears off in specific situations.I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.I'll list some quick suggestions at the end, but for the most part I'll describe the issues shy guys deal with and let you draw your own conclusions about how to act.As with all the other writing on this site, the points here are from a mix of my own experience and accounts I've come across of how shy guys say they think.